The other 'not' list is 10 Signs That You Aren't A Good Leader. You know, micro-manage everyone, don't develop anyone to take your place, talk but don't listen, etc. Another 'not' list.
This weekend, I've read 2.5 books ( and I have several hours still to go where I might get the .5 done). The current book is The Sacredness of Questioning Everything by Dark and it is about not being afraid of question, especially with regard to religion and faith. I totally agree. We all need learn to think and think critically. Don't accept what the talking heads on the news say and don't think that the movies are reality.
The other two books are The Noticer: Sometimes, all a person needs is a little perspective and The Anatomy of Peace. The former is about noticing things around and having the right perspective. The later is about resolving conflict. Both are good and recommended.